Enjoy a fun evening at the Tantra Puja, Dr. Sasha and Janet Lessin’s system of relating to friends and lovers.
Delightful, sweet, safe and comfortable introductions to tantra, pujas are rituals which resemble Sufi, and Square Dancing. In a puja–starting with your mate, date or original partner–you share gazes, smiles, energy and intimate talk as you rotate from partner to partner. Then you return to your original partner for a finale that puts it all together.
This puja deepens your relationship with your partner, if you come together. If you come without a partner, the puja gives you opportunities to make new friends and find romance. The puja also deepens the understanding of tantra for experienced practitioners and is also s a great opportunity for beginners to sample tantra. Partners who are paired may, if they choose, perform all the rituals with each other, rather than rotate to others.
In the All-Chakra Tantra Puja rites, you tastefully and respectfully send and receive energy with seven partners. As you rotate among partners, you relate in a structured energy exchange for each, with a different partner, energy from each of your seven energy centers–chakras.
The rite you do with each successive partner flows from a syllable of the Bija Mantra, where each syllable awakens a different chakra. One partner, one chakra; you take turns sending and receiving in turn from your energy centers concerned with security, sensuality, power, love, communication, insight and spirituality. Then you return to your initial partner for an entire energy-charged mantra, expand your consciousness to one shared with our partner, then expand your awareness to the whole group.
Through this ceremony, you learn to center yourself and synergize your inner security, sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, and spiritual chakras. You enhance intimacy, growth, respect, caring and passion with your partner and the other people in the group.
Our tantra system called All-Chakra Tantra teaches you to center yourself, communicate kindly and genuinely and to regress and reprogram your imprints so you can synergize your inner security, sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, and spiritual chakras. You enhance intimacy, growth, respect, caring and passion with each other. Share your heart and start healing each other’s deep hurts. You learn to relate to each other from a discerning, centered perspective.
From your Center you see your diverse inner-voices and your sweethearts’. Recognize your disowned energies in each other’s attitudes and behaviors. You show your sweethearts your inner fear, pain and vulnerability that triggers your defensive subselves. Learn when and how to let your Inner Children connect with each others’.
Here’s a summary of body parts, tantric tasks and Sanskrit sound associated with each chakra.
Lam Inner Child, Inner Responsible Parent [or any other inner voices, from this life or others, attached spirits, guiding archetypes that are aroused] chant lam . What does a lover do that makes your Child safe. What does s/he do that makes your Responsible, survival-oriented voice feel loved. while you love others.
Lam is also the home of your grounding, your connection to Earth, belonging to this life, to your archetypal decision for finitude. For those who felt unwanted at birth or childhood, you need to feel wanted and secure. We seek security and acceptance we lacked as kids in our relations now. Lovers can help you, but ultimately, it’s up to you to ground yourself and assert your right to belong to this life.
vam Inner Sexual Conservative and Sexy Self yam. What do your partners do that makes your Sexy Side happy. What do they do that makes your conservative side feel safe.
ram Inner Leader, Supporter for ram. Ram exercises include learning to assert yourself to get what’s rightfully yours.
yam Inner Giver/Taker, Pleaser/Selfish, Romantic/Hero for yam. Exercises for yam include some special ones help us feel our love.
ham Inner Orator and Secretkeeper for ham; exercises for authentic communication
Ooo Psychic, Intellect for Ooo. Tonight, in the puja ceremony, we deal with one Ooo Voice, one of our most powerful intellectual voices, our Critic.
Mmm Higher Self, Self that includes your peak experiences, dyadic consciousness, a synthesis of you and your Beloveds, and the Divine for Mmm, where your separate, individual self-senses and merge into your identity with each other. You all merge with pastlife lovers, with the polyamorous lover archetype, with all humanity and with Earth and the Universe.
Chakra 1: PERINEUM: MATERIAL GROUNDING (Lam)
Join your lovers in healthy activities. Help each other feel secure and safe. Share financially. Encourage each other’s wellness as you eat, exercise and stretch together. Massage each other all over. Caress each other’s base chakras, inside and out. In the Bija Mantra, you chant “Lam” for this chakra.
If you’re male, you may invite your lovers put fingers into your rectum and stroke your prostate and the pleasure spot behind your pubic bone.
Whatever your gender, rectal massage helps you hear inner voices that deal with your survival. As your lovers touch you inside, you hear your Inner Critic, your Pleaser, your Warrior. You hear voices that protect your Kid from overwhelming physical and emotional pain and death. Interview these voices; learn their present concerns. Listen to your Inner Child. Let all your voices express themselves and you can integrate their contributions.
Chakra 2: GENITALS: SEX, SENSUALITY, REPRODUCTION (Vam)
Stroke the woman’s sacred sector–inner, belly-side vagina from pubic bone to orifice. Help her emote and rescript self-limiting decisions she remembers when you stroke her. Then she will, with great pleasure, respond to your strokes. She ejaculates. Amrita springs from its urethral font.
The woman manipulates her guy’s first and second chakras. A man, too, regresses, releases pent-up emotions and learns alternate behaviors which better serve him now.
Enjoy a wider range of sensuality.
Join genitals. Men, nestle your penis, limp or erect, into the woman.
And men, ejaculate or pull your energy up instead when you choose. To pull your energy up instead of squirting: when you feel ejaculation pending, shift your focus from your genitals to your hands, eyes and lips. Concentrate on using your fingers, mouth and gaze to delight your lover. Pull energy up from your genitals as you squeeze your pubococcygeal, diaphragm and throat muscles. Picture energy flowing from your crown into your lovers’. Chant “Vam.”
Men and women, you both center yourselves and master your sexy and conservative voices.
Chakra 3: SOLAR PLEXIS: POWER, DIGESTION (Ram)
Take what’s yours, choose boundaries right for you. Assert yourself appropriately. Empower each other.
Explore power chakra dynamics with your love group. Learn how you bond, sometimes sweetly, sometimes sourly, into parental-child roles. Ram meditations help you return to sweet and centered interaction.
You and a lover sour when you (or they) feel scared or hurt but hide the hurt. You hide it and act logical. Or you focus on each other. Or criticize yourselves for feeling hurt.
Stop hiding pain; say what hurts. And guess what hurt and scares your lovers, under their hiding. When you and this lover unmask your fears and insecurities, you touch hearts again. Return to center and sweet interaction.
Chakra 4: HEART: LOVE, COURAGE (Yam)
Chant yam, evoke your Divine Consort and love, adore, support and cheer your lovers. Get sweet; romance each other.
Share consciousness–identify with each other. Walk in each other’s spiritual moccasins. Imagine dying and those you care for dying and realize how precious is the love you still can share. You and your beloved can still synergize your separate spirits within a larger spirit, your dyadic consciousness.
Chakra 5: THROAT: EXPRESSION (Ham)
Chant, “ham”. Hear and express each of your inner voices (subselves). Appreciate them and find creative ways to express them.
Honor your lovers’ many voices too. Talk straight and with love; tell your truth.
Sanctify sex. Select words that revere sexual organs and acts. Yoni (“sacred space”) for vagina, lingam (wand of light) for penis, “honoring” for cunnilingus and fellatio, “rosebud” for anus, “drapes” for vaginal lips, “pearl” for clitoral head, “polishing her pearl” for clitoral honoring, etc. Create your own poetic sex words.
Chakra 6: BRAIN: VISION, INTUITION, INTELLECT (Ooo)
For Ooo, the sixth chakra, recognize your Intellect, and its committee members: Inner Critic, Inner Philosopher and your inner Psychic and Inner Artist as subselves. Employ your Intellect as needed and refuse its masquerade as you, the Center.
Share and expand visions for yourself, your lovers, your community and world. Intuit each other’s thoughts and feelings. Meld minds with your kids, parents and friends. Dreams, past life images, fantasies guide you.
Chakra 7: CROWN: UNITY CONSCIOUSNESS (Mmm)
Rise to wider perspectives of your crown chakra, yet stay aware of the wisdom of chakras 1-6. Encompass more than Thinker, Pleaser or other subselves. Expand your awareness to more than your body. Expand your perspective to everyone and everything everywhere at all-times.
Experience unity; the seamless web of consciousness that links the manifest universe. Merge with the latent–unformed but always arising–metacosmic void. Identify with divine play that can manifest all forms. Infuse all chakras with the radiant joy of your spiritual chakra. Treat yourself and your beloved to tantra.
Bring a potluck dish to share at the party that follows the ritual.
NO ALCOHOL AT THIS EVENT PLEASE
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