Club Tantra

Welcome to Club Tantra. Club Tantra is a member’s only site designed to faciliate groups interested in learning tantra and actively practicing tantra aka sacred sexuality in groups.

This group meets the first Saturday monthly in Hawaii when we get 4 or more couples to register and is for couples only.  Most of our meetings are on the island of Maui in Hawaii. But we hope to expand to neighbor islands.

We are also interested in bringing Club Tantra to other parts of the world. So if you wish to host a Club Tantra event in your city, town or country, please let us know (see contact information below).

If you wish to participate in our group meetings, you will need to become a member of this site and are also required to attend a series of tantra classes so that you might be well prepared for group, tantric exercises.

Details as to how this will proceed are being considered and established. We may have to try out some things and experiment figure out how to maximize this event for all concerned. We may have to change things as we discover more. It’s a process.

But let’s say, for now, as of this posting, couples are required to attend a private or group orientation interview before attending their first Club Tantra meeting.  If all goes well with the private class or group class, the couple will graduate and be admitted to the group event.

If all goes well between couples in the group events, you may be admitted to future events. Or if it’s found necessary by either the couple or the facilitator, the couple may be required to attend one more private classes in order to better fit into the group experience.

We’ve all been programmed to separate ourselves and experience sexuality in private, so the couple has not “failed” if they need more private tantra coaching. They just have programming to deal with.

What we find that often happens with couples is that one member of the couple is the brakes and one is the accelerator.  Also individuals are complex beings and may have parts of themselves that are accelerators while other parts are brakes.  What does that mean? Well it’s simply programming and we must decide what we want to keep, change or toss out of our being in order to have better, happier lives.

In order to achieve bliss, we recognize that we have to work on the inner dynamics of individuals and the relationship bonding patterns of couples.

After the episode, be it group classes or private counseling/coaching followed by homework, there’s feedback. Sometimes there’s backlash after couples experiment.  They access new emotional states, highs and maybe even lows, but it’s all good in the long run as triggers are accelerators for necessary lessons and growth.

So there may be fine tuning and adjustments along the way to help couples and individuals leap from old paradigms to new. But the time, effort and emotional process, sharing and intensity is well worth it for once free from the matrix of misunderstanding, individuals and couples find they are so free in many ways, they feel light as air and happier than they ever imagined they could be.

Our desire is to create a group process where we might go deeper in our practice and accelerate tantra education internationally. We envision a world where there are tantra schools, temples and clubs in every city and town. We hope to pierce the veil of forgetfulness and become aware of our spiritual selves and existence as external beings. The primary goal of group practice is the evolution of consciousness. And we also hope that along the way we might experience more love and joy. Perhaps we’ll all just fall in love with one another. Or maybe we’ll just become good friends.  It’s all good in the divine plan.  We’re open to the experiment and happy that we’re able to host this process for all.

In order to accomplish that task we need to start with step one and are prepared to educate individuals, couples and more in group, tantric practice.  We realize we must train faciliators to lead these groups and also educate individuals in group, tantric practice so they might move beyond the normal paradigms of relating, sharing and sexual lovemaking and reach higher levels of bliss, ecstacy, understanding, enlightenment, ascension, comprehension and conscious evolution.

Most have been programmed to shy away from group loving and sharing.  This is a process of reprogramming and education.  Individuals are not required to share or touch one another sexually. But in order to participate in a tantric group experience, they must open their minds and be aware that other ways of being, loving and sharing exist.

These new ways are as sacred and spiritual in nature as heterosexual, monogamous lovemaking.  And, in some ways, these ways may perhaps even more evolved for as souls we know no boundaries.  It’s only on the ego level we experience such itense limitations and fear-based paradigms.

We find there are tantra groups in active practice all over the planet. Some are open. Some hidden.  This is a revolution in the making on one hand but at the same time, a revival of what was long ago.  Together, as we pioneer brave new worlds and ways of being, we open frontiers for conscious evolution and discover new avenues for healing individuals, couples, countries and worlds.

If you are a single, go to www.tantraconnection.com, our sister site and see if you can hook up with someone and attend as a couple.

This web site is under construction with more to come.  We welcome feedback and comments.

Love, Blessings, Aloha, Mahalo,

Janet Kira Lessin
www.schooloftantra.com
www.templeoftantra.org
www.savethetemples.com
www.tantratestimonials.com

808-244-4103

clubtantrahawaii@gmail.com
clubtantrahi@aol.com